I'm new here and found this forum topic to be interesting so I decided to give my .2 cents as a male.
BIG...... Just kidding. I think a size that fits the body you are in and makes YOU feel comfortable is the best size! Forget what someone else thinks they are your boobs and you should be the one thats happy with the size. Too big is not as attractive and as fun as you might think.
By the way, if you need a personal opinion from an honest male, shoot your pictures over to me and I will give them a look see :)
My wife just said that you should not send pictures (LOL)